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Post by lulusweet0717 on Apr 30, 2008 17:38:27 GMT -5
Hey everyone, This is lulusweet0717 from the BBS forum (if anyone remembers)! I'm new here (well, duh) and i hope that i have....uh.....fun? Lol, so i'm not going to give you all the 411 about me, but in brief: I am not a big fan of tv, i like computer better . I like to hang out with my friends, i like photography and design, i am addicted to sims, sushi, greek food, history, i used to like to swim, i just don't swim that much anymore...i cannot live without my music, i like to stay home alot, i don't play any instruments, because i'm too lazy to read the notes. I like reading, drawing and writing. I want to be either a Photographer or Graphic Designer. I also plan to go to New York City one day.... Hmm...not very brief. But i copied and pasted my interests from my sim page, so yeah. ;D More about me: Mah favourite colour is green. My favourite pattern is argyle,my favourite kind of music is R&B and rock. I am not that outgoing or girly i have to admit, i can be pretty mean and evil sometimes, lol....i am usually helpful, funny, creative and....cute (according to my friends). Also copied and pasted (edited this a bit) also, so don`t ask me why i told you my favourite pattern That`s about it guys! And call me Lulu, unless you want to type out lulusweet0717.
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Post by Zombay on Apr 30, 2008 18:40:53 GMT -5
Hey Lulu! Thanks for joining! I'm looking forward to seeing you around the boards!
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Post by simsane on Apr 30, 2008 20:38:56 GMT -5
Hey Lulu! I know you -- I'm the one who talked to you so much and gave you such crappy help on the bbs when you were trying to figure out why your downloaded lots wouldn't go into your game! Small world, huh? I'm so glad you figured out what the problem was and I'm also grateful that you gave me that link telling about the force install. Oh, my name is Schweisim on the bbs, but I'm known as Simsane everywhere else. Including MTS2, MATY and other places.
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Post by lulusweet0717 on Apr 30, 2008 21:39:29 GMT -5
OMG! This is hilarious! When i read your introduction in the other post, it sounded familiar....(i really don't know how, i just knew). This is so...interesting, lol. Oh and to tell you the truth, being a 50 year old grandmother is actually.....young! My MOM is 50 years old, so your not that old (was that insulting? Sorry if it was! I tend to say rude things and i don't even know it. My friends have been victims of my tendency and it sucks for me, but we're okay now ;D). See you on the forum (both forums i guess, but i'm more in general discussion nowadays).
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Post by simsane on Apr 30, 2008 23:19:44 GMT -5
I don't get insulted too easily, and I am what I am, so how can saying I'm 50 be an insult? ;D Yea, when my grandson was first born, I was only 41 years old. Once he was a couple years old and I would be with him someplace and he would call me Grandma, people would stare, lol! A few even said, "You can't be his grandma! I thought you were his mom!" Nice! I had my first when I was only 19 years, 7 months. He became a dad when he was only 21 years 8 months. But my other two don't plan on having any kids for a long time. And now, my grandson's mother has decided that she isn't going to let us see him anymore because she's mad at my son. I miss him so much!
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Post by lulusweet0717 on May 2, 2008 23:12:09 GMT -5
Well, i know some people who are sensitive about their age (i guess that's why teachers never reveal it).
You can't see your grandson anymore?!? Aw...that's so sad! I hope your son and his wife can work things out so that you can see your grandson. My aunt is mad at my father, so my sister and i couldn't see my cousins. We haven't seen them in 5 years. It's really sad.
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Post by simsane on May 2, 2008 23:49:35 GMT -5
Oh, I'm sorry that you can't see your cousins. I have a lot of fun memories of family get togethers and my cousins and I spying on the adults, or having water fights out in the yard. Happy memories. No, it's not my son and his wife. He was never married to my grandson's mother and they are not together anymore. My son doesn't even live in this state anymore. No, I'm talking about my grandson's mother being mad at my son and because I refuse to turn against him, she is mad at me too. She's mad for a totally ridiculous reason. She's mad because he met someone else -- after he left her because she got pregnant with her second child by someone else and then had the nerve to tell my son that she wanted him to be her boyfriend but that she also wanted to keep seeing and sleeping with the guy who is the father of her second child. He had the nerve to move on and now has a different girlfriend. So, she's pissed at him and she's pissed at me because I still talk to him and love him. She's a little crazy in my opinion.
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Post by lulusweet0717 on May 3, 2008 18:34:56 GMT -5
Oh. Sorry, got the wrong picture. To tell you the truth that is a crazy reason to get mad about. My aunt is just as crazy. She got mad at my dad for a reason i'm not to sure about (my parents said they'd tell me when i was older). But i know that the reason was stupid. She gets mad for a lot of things and she and my dad were arguing on the phone, but she wouldn't let my dad have any say in the argument. She didn't let him speak, so he hung up on her. Never heard from her again. Neither has my grandparents (they basically couldn't see their grandchildren). But a recent tragedy sort of brought the family together a bit (which is ironic actually). My aunt felt bad about what she did, and i think that she is now forgetting the past.
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Post by simsane on May 3, 2008 18:41:26 GMT -5
Oh, well I hope that things can get worked out between your Aunt and your dad and that you can get to know your cousins again. I just hope that my grandson doesn't forget about us and that maybe when he's older he will be able to come see us on his own sometimes. I know most kids don't want to go visit their grandparents though, so I don't know what will happen. Sorry to hear that something bad had to happen to make her come to her senses though.
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Post by lulusweet0717 on May 3, 2008 18:59:21 GMT -5
Your grandson's mother has custody of your grandson?
I really hope that you can see him again. I know my grandparents are sad about not seeing their grandchildren. But my aunt got mad again at my uncle when he asked how my cousins were. She was thinking that he was going to pass the information to my grandparents, which he wasn't. They then argued and she wouldn't let him talk and so my uncle....hung up on her too. A week later my uncle got a heart attack and had to get triple bypass surgery (all three arteries blocked), which took seven and a half hours (but he's okay now. It was a risky surgery). My aunt is probably devestated about what she did now.
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Post by simsane on May 8, 2008 0:38:49 GMT -5
Yes, she probably is devastated by what she said. Often we say things and then later regret them. That seems to just be part of life. :-( But yes, my grandson's mother is my oldest son's ex-girlfriend and my grandson is her son and she has custody of him. My oldest son (and my grandson's mother) were both involved with drugs. My son paid for it and has since cleaned up, moved to another state, gotten a new girlfriend and a job that he loves. He has even enrolled in college courses. My grandson's mother has also cleaned up though (thank goodness) and is doing very well now too. But yes, she has custody and is angry that my son has found a new girlfriend, so she's basically just using her son to try to hurt my side of the family. It sucks, but there's not much I can do about it. My son gave up his parental rights when he got arrested and put into prison for the drugs. So, it's not like he could try to sue for custody. So, even though I have never done anything wrong, I end up paying for their mistakes. And, even worse, so does my sweet little grandson.
Well, hopefully she will let us have him the weekend after Mothers' Day. I don't know.
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Post by lulusweet0717 on May 13, 2008 18:17:17 GMT -5
Your situation is something that i would hear in movies. But yes, i know that i have not experienced the horrors of the "real world". I just never heard about those things where i live, but there are cases where people in my school are high on crack, other drugs and cigarettes. My friend smokes and me and my other friends are trying to help her quit because now she wants to. This might not be relevant, but in some schools downtown there has been some hardship between families and it's so depressing to hear when i read the newspaper. A fifteen year old was shot at his school (and guns are illegal in Canada) somewhere on the west side of the city. That is just some food for thought i guess because it has nothing to do with what you were talking about. Well, i'm glad to hear that your son and his ex- girlfriend are not on drugs anymore (i'm very anti-drugs). This is pretty late, but Happy Mother's day to you! Were you able to see your son?
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